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Friday, April 9, 2010

For the first time ever, no news is good news!!

Firstly I would like to thank everybody for their kind words and sharing their past experiences and helping to put our minds at ease after our last post.

Secondly, I would like to apologise for my instant reaction regarding the scan. I think this was an immediate reminder of our first failed attempt and missed abortion, I automatically felt impending doom. I blogged without thinking of the positives that were also stated on the ultrasound report and there are lots of positives there!!! I guess it should be called blogging under emotion maybe a similar condition as texting when drunk... It does make me realise how I am not as in control as I have been telling/fooling myself. And it is true what Jo Jo commented 'we all do have our own ISSUES' it is truly an emotional roller coaster and every twist and turn does leave me with my stomach in my mouth. It is however very reassuring to have the support of everyone who is also going through this similar journey.

The week otherwise has been okay, we have constantly been thinking about things in Mumbai and hoping our SM and little bump are ok and not too bored on bed rest. I have stayed away from google, Will however has been looking for anything he can and educating himself and me about subchorionic bleeds.

We would also like to thank Dr Ramesh for putting up with us the day we received our ultrasound report and her ongoing care of our SM.

We hope every ones journey is progressing smoothly and fingers crossed for less ISSUES and loads of smooth sailing!!!!


  1. Guys, you are perfectly normal! We all freak a little, okay .. a LOT.

    Hugs to you both, yes,no news is good news.

  2. Sending my love and lots of hugs to you both.
    Thinking of you loads and hoping and praying your little one will hang in there and complete the whole journey, bringing you love, joy and total contentment to your lives.

  3. I think all the emotions you are experiencing are perfectly normal. It is so hard to be so far away and once you've experienced a miscarriage it is doubly hard. The odds really are in your favor that you will be taking home a beautiful baby. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

  4. Sending all sorts of positive vibes your are surrounded by a cyber network who understands every emotion!